Wedding Bells Are Ringing

Dinner was planned tonight. The boyfriend was shouting the entire family to dinner. I had an idea what was coming but my lips were sealed. The conversation started with my youngest sister asking for nene's birthdate. Dad was perturbed. Mum was also perturbed. They didn't understand why. 

Then, the boyfriend said it, "We are getting married!"

Mum's first reaction was a sigh, followed by fingers tapping away at her temple signaling a headache and then shaking of her head. Dad and 2nd sis were silent. I congratulated with a BIG smile. I cannot see myself doing otherwise. Here is my little sister announcing to us the biggest news of her life! 

Seeing the two of them happily in love and making this next big step in their life, I felt happy. Although it was mixed with turmoil deep within, overall I was filled with happiness and excitement for both of them. I remembered how I felt more than a year back - joy, excitement and contentment. Maybe this is how they feel now too.

Honestly, I was disappointed with everyone else's reaction. I can understand why but that doesn't mean I agree with it. True - marriage isn't all smooth-sailing or a bed of roses. I know it is a lot of work. I'm sure everyone knows that too. But I also know it is full of rewards with the right one. The couple does not need any more of our negativity or forewarning. You do not go into marriage thinking "Oh no, it's going to be hard work from this day onwards".  

Maybe we should worry less. Be less fearful of an unknown future. Life is full of ups and downs - that is a fact of life. Perhaps all we could ever do in life is to enjoy the process, give it our very best and live life with no regrets.